Monica: I can't believe you tried to cut me out. Why, Phoebe? Why?
Phoebe: It was right after we were living together and you were driving me crazy, okay? You were really controlling and compulsive and shrill.
Monica: Well, I'm still all those things.
Phoebe: You're also so generous and kind and scrappy.
Monica: I am scrappy.
Phoebe: Exactly. Look, no matter what I tried to do, I couldn't keep you out of my life. Of all the people I've cut out you were the only one who ever clawed her way back in.
Monica: That's because I'm scrappy.