Quote from Frasier in Taps at the Montana
Alfred: They already told you. Your father killed Mrs. Latimer. Mrs. Hawkins saw him. Frasier: Mrs. Hawkins thought she saw him. Mrs. Latimer: No, Martin did kill me. He's got a lot to learn about playing gently. Frasier: Mrs. Latimer, we have already broken the "no-eating while dead" rule but we'll stand fast on the "quiet" one. [puts a crab puff in her mouth]