[flashback:]
Debra: Tell him why you want to marry me!
Ray: Okay. She's great, all right?
Father Hubley: "Great."? I'm going to assume that you won't be writing your own vows. Well, let me ask you this. Are children planned?
Debra: Oh, yes. Yes. We plan on having a big family.
Father Hubley: Raymond?
Ray: Well, I never really thought about it.
Debra: We talked about it.
Ray: That doesn't mean I thought about it.

[flashback:]
Father Hubley: Actually, I am a little pressed for time today but, Raymond, if I may? Marriage requires a great deal of soul-searching before a responsible decision can be made. Now, you owe that to yourself, and to your intended. [off Ray's look] Her! Now, you can stay and talk for as long as you want or wish. But, I think, l... Oh, good. A funeral. God bless. [exits]
Ray: So, want to get something to eat?
Debra: What did you do?!
Ray: What?
Debra: What? He thinks you are a moron.
Ray: Well, you're marrying me.

[flashback:]
Ray: I think I want to see Debra.
Frank: No, that's forbidden. Even I know that. Listen, if I'd seen your mother before the thing I'd be having this conversation on a beach in Jamaica with my son Ruiz.

[flashback:]
Father Hubley: Dearly beloved.
Ray: Hi.
Father Hubley: ... Hi.
Ray: Look at her, huh? Look at her.
Father Hubley: She is beautiful.
Ray: Hey, she's engaged.

[flashback:]
Father Hubley: Do you, Raymond, take Debra-
Ray: Yes.
Father Hubley: Wait. To be your wife? Wait. Do you promise to be true to her in good times and bad? [shushes Ray] To love her and honor her all the days of your life? Now.
Ray: Yes. Debra?
Debra: I do.
Ray: Thanks.

[flashback:]
Ray: I'm sorry I've been such a jerk. And I promise not to be one anymore. If you'll help me.
Debra: I will.
Father Hubley: You have declared your consent before the church. What God has joined, men cannot divide.
Ray: Let them try. [kisses Debra]
Father Hubley: Oh, I now pronounce you husband and wife.