Frank: Listen to me, Ray, your brother's a candy-pants. But guys like us, we've got to be strong. Because the truth is, your mother was gonna complain no matter what I did. So I figured, the hell with it! I'm gonna do what I want. Right?
Ray: Well, uh... Okay.
Frank: Right! Because the more the wife yammers, the more you can't listen. I've been through "Why can't you be a better person?!" Look at me! [eats cake] Am I a better person?
Ray: No.
Frank: I win!