[flashback:]
Debra: This is all I've thought about for for a year.
Ray: Well, maybe you should develop some other interests. Look, wait, stop! All I'm saying is you shouldn't get so nutty about being pregnant.
Debra: Well, why the hell not?!
Ray: Well, first of all, the language not really for children. Just let it happen, okay? If it happens, then it happens.
Debra: No, no, you have to keep at it! There's only so many days per month!
Ray: I'm just saying we shouldn't get our hopes up, okay? In case, you know... Whatever.
Debra: Ray, you do know that three months of trying isn't that long, right?
Ray: Don't look at me, I don't even want to talk about it.
Debra: Oh, sweetie. It's normal. Really.