Quote from Frank in Alone Time
Frank: What the hell is wrong with those kids? They're always sticky. Marie: Debra wants time away from Raymond. Ray: It's an afternoon, Ma, it's no big deal. Marie: Oh, but it is. Raymond, dear, a marriage is about being together, about closeness. [Ray scoffs and points to Frank] Frank: She's right. Ray: What?! Frank: It is about closeness. About how much closeness you can take. About how close you can get to killing her before you kill yourself.