Quote from Ray in The Wedding: Part 2
[flashback:] Debra: Tell him why you want to marry me! Ray: Okay. She's great, all right? Father Hubley: "Great."? I'm going to assume that you won't be writing your own vows. Well, let me ask you this. Are children planned? Debra: Oh, yes. Yes. We plan on having a big family. Father Hubley: Raymond? Ray: Well, I never really thought about it. Debra: We talked about it. Ray: That doesn't mean I thought about it.