Debra: "Things to do before I die."
Ray: It's personal, okay? Like you have your feminine products.
Debra: ls this about you shrinking?
Ray: Maybe a little. Look, the guys thought that the reason the shrinking thing is bothering me is 'cause I'm having a mid-life crisis. Yeah, and I need some goals, you know? Something to shoot for.
Debra: You want to have an affair?
Ray: What? Where did that come from?
Debra: Well, how come you won't show me?
Ray: Yeah. I put "have an affair" on paper. That's one of my goals. Disappoint another woman.