Quote from Ray in Pet the Bunny
Debra: No, it's sad because, what, it's been 35 years? You you never told him this, did you? Ray: What? Told him what, about petting the bunny? Debra: Yeah, you gotta tell him that you saw him and how it made you feel. Ray: Are you new here? Debra: Ray, you have to talk to him about this. Ray: No, I'm not! Debra: So the only way you could have a nice conversation with your father is if he's dead. Ray: So you see my problem.