Quote from Debra in Call Me Mom
Ray: Well, listen. Look, you tried. You're off the hook now. You didn't really want to call her "Mom" anyway. Debra: That's before I knew she didn't want me to. It's just... I don't know... Why did she do that to me? Why doesn't she want me to call her "Mom"? We've had our differences over the years, but I thought we were closer than this. Maybe she doesn't think I'm good enough.