Quote from Ray in It's Supposed to Be Fun
Debra: You're not going to apologize? Ray: See, this is why you don't know anything about anything. If I go up there and apologize to Geoffrey, then he thinks I have something to apologize about, and then all of a sudden it's a big deal when it's not a big deal. Debra: It is a big deal! Ray: No! No! No, it's not! Hey, weren't you the one who came up with the "laugh when they fall down" trick so they won't know they hurt themselves? Debra: Well, he didn't fall down today. It's as if you pushed him down. Ray: That is a completely wrong analogy! If anything, today it was like I patted him on the back and he tripped.