Quote from Marie in The Visit
Debra: Yeah, but I just wanted her to be apart of the family. It's been one day and already she's- Marie: But she's not doing anything. Debra: No! That's right, she's not doing anything. Nothing! Not a thing! Marie: What do you want her to do? Debra: I don't know. Just help me. Help the kids. Get involved. I mean, she should know! She's a mother! Marie: Yes, dear, but she's not mother-ish. She's a nice lady but, she's not mother-ish. She's not the kind of mother we are. Debra: We? Marie: See, I'd like to think that whatever it is you didn't get from her, whatever it is you learned about what it really means to be a mother, that maybe you got that from me. [Debra chuckles faintly] It's funny, isn't it? How life gives you what you need. Debra: [chuckles] Oh, you gotta love life.