Quote from Ray in The Checkbook
Robert: Well, then, why can't Debra find out? Ray: Because... Robert: She's the one with the problem? Ray: Yep. Robert: Oh, she's not going nuts with the credit cards, is she? I've seen it before. Compulsive shopping. Rip a family apart. Ray: Yeah, I know. She feels bad about it already, so let's just... Robert: Wow! Ray: Yeah. Robert: I had no idea she was like this. Ray: It was a surprise to me. Robert: You know what she needs? She needs to get her self-worth back. She should get a job and earn back part of that money. Ray: I thought of that, and then I started thinking, "What about the kids?" I mean, they need their mother.