Quote from Carla in Smotherly Love
Frasier: Darling, for the hundredth time, why are we going through with this ridiculous wedding re-enactment? Lilith: Because every time I try to say "no," it comes out "yes." My behavior is solely to please my mother. Why does she always try to turn me into something I'm not? Carla: Maybe, deep down, she always wanted a girl.